We asked SCI to please bring our 24-week scan forward by 48 hours (to Friday 27th April) to let us share the news with my visiting sister and her husband. They (SCI) were only too happy to oblige and got really excited about the prospect themselves! Encouraging!
Anyway - They (the entourage) arrived at our place late on the Friday night (300km) with three very wired kids in tow. There was much excitement and bouncing off the walls (3 hours in a car seat does that to a kid) and in between bounces I surreptitously checked my emails waiting for the (fingers crossed) good news! Finally at 10.55pm it arrived! Yes - Dr. Shivani has reviewed the reports & found everything fine with the scan - YES! - and Yes - we were all still up - and still bouncing off the walls. But it just didn't feel like the right time to drop the bombshell and then say - OK then well that's it I'm off to bed - nightie night everyone!
So we waited........
........ And dropped the bombshell the next morning while the three little poppets were riding their bikes around the house (through the car shed and down the driveway). My sister and her husband thought we were about to announce our plans for the weekend and were thinking perhaps a hit of golf or a visit to the local footy oval - but ah no - the thing is, we've got a baby growing in another woman's uterus over in India that we made with yet another woman's eggs and oh yes she also lives in India and perhaps you've heard of the clinic becasue every time they do a tv documentary about surrogacy in India they seem to interview our Doctor and she always seems to speak so well and we love her and oh yeah the other thing is the baby has made it to 24 weeks and we'll be flying over to India in about 3 months time if not earlier .......................
tick ................................................. holy ...................... crap.....................
Oh MY God THAT'S W*O*N*D*E*R*F*U*L!!!!! Aaaaagggghhhhhh!!!! Eeeeekkkkkkkkk!!!!!!! Followed by Much rejoicing and hugging and hoopla La-ing and OMG'ing and frantic hand gestures and more OMG'ing and questions and more OMG'ing and laughs and little jigs etc and yep - you get the picute. It's fair to say my sister and her husband are behind us 10,000% on this one!! And all the time with three little poppets riding their bikes round and round yelling out 'look at me! look at me!'
So after taking off on THAT rocket fuelled high we found ourselves trying to wind it down a notch or two (sigh) and just re-confirming that nothing's ever concrete until you're actually holding a baby and how the journey has already been marred with the loss of a twin etc But still - it's so great to finally have it out there!
GREAT but scary.
And so we're not in any big rush to tell the rest of the world yet - we just don't want to jinx it!!! So here's the plan. I would MUCH prefer to tell the rest of my family (one set of parents, one sister, one brother, one sister-in-law and one brother in-law) face-to-face rather than over the phone or in an email (ick) and as there's no more impending trips planned by anyone as yet to come up here, we will wait until I get down there to them! Luckily that's in a weeks time now so not too long really. We are all going out to lunch to 'catch up' on Saturday 12th May and then it will be 'BOMBS AWAY'!! I am expecting a tentatively mixed response (perhaps from mum & dad) and I won't have my husband with me which is unfortunate (bloody work) but am hoping for more of the same (above) from everyone else. I guess you just never know though do you .......!
Finally; Following the awsomeness of our last Scan pictures in March (3D Bunny) I can barely make out what s/he is up to in these (suddenly shy?) but when Dr Shivani says that everything is fine then I have absolute faith that it is!
My love and friendship goes out to everyone sharing this cyber world with me and I hope to read many promising updates soon and for a long time to come!!
For those of you awaiting the all important BFP news - My special thoughts are with you.
Jacaranda XX


HAPPY TIMES and more to come. X
ReplyDeleteCongrats on 24 weeks, your getting sooooo close now! Its a huge story to tell and I'm sure all your loved ones just want you to be happy and in turn will be happy for you!!! Keep us posted !
ReplyDeleteWonderful news. I love how you refer to telling of the news as dropping the bomb!!! I can only imagine people's faces ! So excited for you and hope it goes smoothly!
ReplyDeleteTelling some people the news can be hard especially when you don't know how they'll react. Glad your first time went so well and hope you get the same every time! I'm starting to break similar news to more people now and prefer to do it face to face but on a couple of occasions I've emailed those who might have negative knee-jerk reactions asking 'have you seen this website'(my blog)? So far so good!
ReplyDeleteCongrats! It feels so good to let it out. After we started we just couldn't stop and everyone knew within a week! Not a single person reacted negatively - everyone loves babies :)
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K
Well done! For getting to the 24 week milestone and the first announcement! Thats so wonderful, sure everyone else will be delighted too! The family lunch worked well for us ..just bring some tissues! X
ReplyDeleteWhat a lovely, energetic and exciting post, so excited for you. Telling loved finally is an incredible feeling - enjoy.
ReplyDeleteAh that is great news that all is well on your 24wk scan... and wonderful that you have been able to share the news with your sister!! August will be coming very quickly!!!
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lisa x
That is fantastic news that it went over so well!
ReplyDelete24 weeks - YAY!!!
Phew! well done! and what a great Mother's Day gift you'll be giving the rest of your family - with telling them about your exciting news!!. So happy for you!!>
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